First, there are a couple of reasons we're homeschooling our kids. One of these is that, since my husband is active duty military, we are constantly moving and I want [our daughter and son] to have some continuity with their schooling. Moving from state to state, from school district to school district, there are so many variables we'd have to take into consideration. What if the duty station we want is unavailable? What if the government decides to send us to a duty station at which the public schools are horrible? (I can think of a few places I'd rather not send my kids to public school.) Oh, and by the way, seeing as we're dealing with military pay and all, private school isn't an option. Nor, may I add, is it always better than public school in the first place.
The other reason we've decided to homeschool is that I want control over our kids' curriculum. There are things I'd prefer to remove from their curriculum that's standard in public school (and private, I might add), and many, many things I want to add in. I'm not satisfied with the majority of math curricula, having seen the "new and improved" math my sister was taught only eight years after me. I wholeheartedly believe elementary school kids shouldn't have homework past a couple of spelling words, and that the school day is too long for most kids. I want more--and better--science. More curiosity.
Look, before you cry out that by not participating in the system I'm letting it fail, please hear me out. I understand that most families cannot homeschool, don't want to, or are happily engaged in the public school system. I was a public school kid and did just fine. In fact, I had a couple of really fantastic teachers that I don't think I could ever thank enough for what they taught me about their subjects and about life. Really. But it's not for our family. As far as I'm concerned, as long as the kids turn out okay and become healthy, productive, happy adults who cares where they go to school? My dad was a teacher, my mother-in-law still is, and my sister is studying to teach secondary science as I type this. I want the system to succeed; but I'm not going to participate in it with my kids.
So anyway, the curriculum. (I didn't mean for this to turn into a homeschooling manifesto, I promise!) We're having an 'exploratory' year, since our daughter is only just turning five this autumn. She wouldn't be going to kindergarten in the public schools until next year because of her birthday, but is developmentally ready for the learning side of things. This year is a practice year. If it turns out horribly, we'll reconsider homeschooling next year with no time lost. These are the books we're using:
Oh, and the library. We love the library. We walk a mile to get there at least once a week, and spend time picking out stories for the coming few days. (It's one of my kids most favorite excursions.)
We're not doing formal science and history yet, focusing instead on reading and basic math concepts. Instead, we're reading story books about history and science, doing small experiments at home (baking soda and vinegar volcanoes are a perennial favorite), and exploring the great outdoors. I want to foster a love of learning, not an inherent dread of starting the school day. Our two-year-old, while not ready for school yet (obviously?) usually sits happily at the table with crayons and paper while we work on the day's lessons. It's actually quite a relaxing time of day at our home. No argumentative toddlers (see this weeks rule), no music, no television, no distractions of any sort. I love it. We probably spend about an hour four days a week doing work. The rest of the time we play.
We used "Draw Write Now" and "21 house Rules"! Enjoy your time homeschooling! We are currently wrapping up our last year. I've graduated the two boys - both have chosen different paths in life and are function just fine in the "real world" with out a public school education. ;) The daughter is finishing her last year, deciding what to do with her life yet. I'm pretty sure she's gonna head to college; she's just unsure which one, 2 year or 4 year, and what to major in. It'll come all in good time. Homeschooling was really the best decision for our family.
ReplyDeleteSuch a lovely post -- I love seeing what homeschoolers are up to!
ReplyDeleteExcellent, Shari! I'm glad you liked those books too. This has been such an adventure in the short time we've been homeschooling, but just seeing the Rug Rat on the verge of being able to read her favorite story books and figuring out some basic math concepts is priceless. I feel so lucky to be able to be so involved in my kids' education!
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